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On Championing #ownvoices—While Writing Outside of Your Community

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By Sona Charaipotra

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If you follow me on Twitter, you already know that I’m a big proponent of diversity. I’m part of the #WeNeedDiverseBooks executive team, I’m the co-founder of CAKE Literary – a book packaging company specifically focused on high concept diverse reads – and I sometimes weep on panels (yes, more than once) when talking about the fact that my little brown daughter, 6, can still barely find herself in books, some 30 years after I was a little brown girl looking for myself in books.

So when I read the CCBC survey stats, I was floored. Of the 112 books about Asian characters published in 2014, for example, only about a third were by Asian writers. And there were 81 books by Asian American writers that had no Asian-related content whatsoever. (Those numbers held fairly stable for 2015 as well.) Translation? People are writing Asian stories – but mostly not Asian writers. And Asian writers are publishing. But not Asian stories.

It took me a while to wrap my head around exactly why. But then I realized that I very much could use myself as a case study to unravel the findings.

After all, my first two published books Tiny Pretty Things and Shiny Broken Pieces (both co-written with Dhonielle Clayton) feature Asian characters – but they’re not South Asian characters, which is what would qualify them as #ownvoices in my particular experience.

And one of the questions I get most frequently as an author asks why I didn’t put an Indian character into my first two books.

The reason? It wouldn’t ring true. I know, I know. It’s fiction. But the world of the Tiny Pretty Things series is based on pre-professional ballet, and it’s a world Dhonielle witnessed firsthand while teaching at a cutthroat DC ballet conservatory. One where there were hardly any black girls, let alone Indian kids. But there were a lot of East Asian kids, particularly Korean and Chinese. We wanted our books to be as authentic as they could be to that world. A South Asian kid wouldn’t fit, wouldn’t serve the story. And so, that’s the decision we made.

Which is not to say that there’s none of me in that book. In fact, I’d say each of the three protagonists has pieces of me in her. But most especially June, the half-Korean girl, who struggles mightily with issues of identity. She frequently feels misplaced and displaced, neither here nor there, knowing no community is quite willing to claim her. I’m not biracial, but I am a knee-high generation kid, who grew up in the thick of central Jersey, not Indian in India and not American in America. Like June, I faced racism and colorism, grappled with identity and belonging. I relate to her a lot.

But like my kid (and the kid I was), I’m still looking for a glimpse of myself in the pages of a book. There have been books that have come close, but I’m realizing that maybe it really is up to me to make that happen.

So I’m working on them. Stories where the little Indian girl from Central Jersey gets to be the hero, gets to hate mushrooms and save the day (or the planet), and yes, kiss a boy (or girl) or two. And on my writing journey, I can happily say, I’ve found other Asian American writers, ones like me but also not, ones who were searching and have found, too, that they need to raise their voices. There are so many of us now, and we contain multitudes. Our stories will be told.

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Sona Charaipotra is a journalist and author who’s written for everyone from the New York Times to Teen Vogue. The co-founder of CAKE Literary, a boutique book packaging company with a decidedly diverse bent, she’s also the co-author of the dance drama TINY PRETTY THINGS and its sequel SHINY BROKEN PIECES. She’s proud to serve as VP of content for #WeNeedDiverseBooks. Find her on the web at SonaCharaipotra.com, or on Twitter @sona_c

Shiny Broken Pieces is available for purchase.

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What separates a good character from a great character?
It’s all in the way a character is detailed and developed. Well-rounded, believable characters, who have the readers rooting for them, go on to make memorable characters.
A story could have many...

What separates a good character from a great character?

It’s all in the way a character is detailed and developed. Well-rounded, believable characters, who have the readers rooting for them, go on to make memorable characters.

A story could have many characters, but only a few leave a lasting impact on your audience. So it’s worth spending all your time to make them the pillars of your story and write good character arcs for them that resonate with and sometimes even drive your story forward.

Character Arcs & Creating Interesting New Characters In The Middle Of Your Story

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If you’re straight, write stories with gay characters, but don’t write stories about being gay. That’s not your story to tell.

If you’re cis, write stories with trans characters, but don’t white stories about being trans. That’s not your story to tell.

If you’re allistic, write stories with autistic characters, but don’t write stories about being autistic. That’s not your story to tell.

If you’re neurotipical, write mentally ill characters, but don’t write stories about being mentally ill. That’s not your story to tell. 

If you’re able bodied, write stories with disabled characters, but don’t write stories about being disabled. That’s not your story to tell. 

If you’re white, write characters who are POC, but don’t write stories about being a POC. That’s not your story to tell 

Write stories with diverse and complex characters, but unless you’ve experienced the oppression that we have, don’t write the stories that we need to tell ourselves. 

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First Aid Basics

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I just got certified in CPR and First Aid last month with the American Heart Association. I wanted to share this information with you, because a lot of what we see on TV is not at all accurate as to what you’re supposed to do to actually help someone. Here are some of the topics that were covered:

First Aid Basics

Here are the steps you should follow when addressing a situation where a person may be injured/unconscious: 

  • Check to make sure the scene is safe- you are no help to anybody if you also get hurt
  • If the person is responsive: “Are you okay?”
  • If they are unresponsive, hit their shoulders hard and yell: “Are you okay?” to see if you can rouse them
  • Phone 911 and put the phone on speaker (you can delegate this task to somebody else if you’re not alone)
  • Have somebody get a First Aid kit (don’t leave the person if you’re by yourself unless the 911 operator tells you to)
  • Is the person conscious? Unconscious?
  • Check them for any obvious signs of injury
  • Check them for medical jewelry

Remember

  • Time is of the essence! Be decisive and confident. 
  • Don’t be afraid to call for help and assign people tasks
  • You can only perform CPR on a flat service. If a person needs CPR and is on a bed or in a chair, move them to the floor immediately. Don’t worry about hurting their head or anything, if they don’t get CPR immediately, their life expectancy is significantly less. (See my CPR post for full details)
  • Do not move the person unless the area they’re in is unsafe. If you have to move the person, drag them by their clothes and pull them to safety.

Adult Choking

There are both mild and severe cases of adult choking. In a mild case, the person choking will be able to make a sound or cough loudly. Typically these cases resolve themselves. 

  • Ask: “Are you choking? Can I help you?”
  • If the person cannot make a sound or cough in response, they are suffering from severe choking.
  • Walk around back of the person and put your arms around them
  • Make a fist with your dominant hand
  • Place your fist slightly above the belly button and below the chest bone.
  • Grasp the fist with your other hand
  • Give quick upward thrusts
  • If the person is overweight or pregnant, put your arms around the person’s armpits.

If you are unsuccessful in removing the blockage, the person will quickly become unresponsive. You will need to perform adult CPR and call 911.

After chest compressions (see above link) check person’s mouth to see if the thing they choked on is visible. If it is visible, remove it. Never going digging around in someone’s mouth

Amputation

  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Get a First Aid kit
  • Both these steps can be delegated to someone else if they’re around
  • Put gauze on the wound and apply pressure until the bleeding stops
  • Do not remove the gauze if it’s bled through- this will remove any blood clots that have formed. 
    • If the gauze is bled through, add more gauze on top and keep applying pressure until the bleeding stops
  • Clean the amputated part with water
  • Warp the amputated part with dressing 
  • Put the amputated part in a small plastic bag
  • Get a larger plastic bag and fill it with equal parts ice and water
  • Put the small plastic bag inside the large plastic bag
  • Label the bag with person’s name and time of the injury

Asthma (How to Operate an Inhaler)

People diagnosed with asthma will typically be aware of it and may have an inhaler on them. If someone has an asthma attack:

  • Ask them: “Are you okay? Do you need your inhaler?” 
  • The person will probably be able to give some sort of indication in response
  • If they need their inhaler: 
    • Locate the inhaler
    • Put the medicine (metallic capsule pictured below) in the inhaler if it is not already in there, it will click into place
  • Shake the inhaler to activate the medicine
  • Attach the mouth piece if it’s unattached (not all inhalers have one, it is not pictured below)
  • Remove the cap (cap is darker blue piece pictured below)
  • Have the person put their head back
  • Put the inhaler in the person’s mouth
  • Push down on the canister and have them breathe out slowly
  • They should begin to feel relief immediately, but you should still have them sit down and take it easy for a while
    • Call 911 if they are still having difficulty breathing after the inhaler has been administered
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Bee Sting

Usually bee stings present only mild irritation and pain. If the person stung has a severe allergic reaction, you will need to call 911.

  • Get a first aid kit
  • Scrape away the bee stinger and venom sack using a credit card or something similar in nature
  • Wash the affected area with lots of soap and running water
  • Wrap a bag of ice in a towel and place it over the affected area for 20 minutes or until the pain is gone
  • Watch the person for up to 30 minutes for signs of an allergic reaction
    • Call 911 if they present any classic allergy symptoms

Bleeding from Nose

  • Have the person lean their head forward
  • Get a First Aid kit
    • Or have someone else get one
  • Have the bleeding person apply pressure to the bridge of their nose using gauze from the First Aid kit
  • Do not remove the gauze if it’s bled through- this will remove any blood clots that have formed. 
    • If the gauze is bled through, add more gauze on top until the bleeding stops
  • Call 911 if the bleeding lasts longer than 15 minutes

Heat Cramps/Dehydration

Can lead to heat exhaustion! These typically happen when someone is dehydrated and tries to do lots of physical activity.

  • Have the person sit down and cool off
  • Have them drink something with sugar and electrolytes
    • Water will work in a pinch but sugary drinks and gatorade are preferred

Heat Exhaustion

  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Have the person lie down
  • Cool the person by pouring water on them or wetting them with wet cloths until they begin to act normally
  • Have them drink something with sugar and electrolytes
    • Water will work in a pinch but sugary drinks and gatorade are preferred
  • Wait with them until help arrives

Opioid Overdose

My instructor said that these will often happen in an unsafe or an isolated environment. Always check to make sure that the scene is safe- look out for needles. 

Naloxone is used to revive people who have overdosed on opioids. If you find someone who has overdosed on opioids you happen to have naloxone on you and know how to administer it, the American Heart Association recommends that you use it instead of waiting for help to arrive.

Responsive:

  • Yell for help
  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Wait with the person until help arrives

Unresponsive

  • Yell for help
  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Perform five cycles of adult CPR
  • Wait for help
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Seizure

Seizures are abnormal electrical activity in the brain. Typical seizure symptoms: spasms, muscle rigidity, and unconsciousness. Seizures typically last between 60-90 seconds before the person gains consciousness. 

  • Do NOT touch the person who is having a seizure
  • Do NOT put anything in their mouth
  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • If there are people around, ask them to get a First Aid kit while you wait with the person having the seizure
    • Don’t leave the person having a seizure if you are alone
  • Move objects away from the person having the seizure so that they don’t knock into them
  • If possible, place a small towel/pad underneath the person’s head
  • If the person starts vomiting, turn them over on their side so that they don’t choke
    • If possible use gloves and an eye mask from a First Aid kit to avoid exposure to bodily fluids
  • After they come to, they may be bleeding from the mouth. 
    • Use gauze from a First Aid kit to stop the bleeding
    • Have them apply pressure with the gauze until the bleeding stops
  • Stay with the person until help arrives

Splints

Splints should be significantly longer than the injured area. They’re used to constrict movement, so the person is injured should not be able to move freely once the splint is applied. Splints are use to treat broken/dislocated bones. It’s very difficult to tell if a bone is actually broken or just dislocated, so don’t worry about it and just splint the thing.

  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Get a First Aid kit
  • Both these steps can be delegated to someone else if they’re around
  • Put on gloves/eye glasses from the First Aid kit to avoid contamination from bodily fluids
  • Cover exposed wound area with gauze
  • Do not remove the gauze if it’s bled through- this will remove any blood clots that have formed. 
    • If the gauze is bled through, add more gauze on top until the bleeding stops.
  • Place a strip of rigid material underneath the injured area
  • Use gauze/dressing from the First Aid kit to secure the splint by wrapping material above and below the injured area
    • Never tie material directly over the injury
  • Have the person stay as still as possible until help arrives
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Stroke

Strokes are caused from blockage/bleeding from things like blood clots. Typical signs of a stroke: face drooping (or numbness), arm weakness (or numbness), and speech difficulty. There is nothing much you can do except wait with the person and try to make them comfortable until help arrives.

  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Note the time that the stroke symptoms began (this will help hospital technicians)
  • Stay with the person until help arrives

Tourniquets

Some First Aid kits will come with a pre-made tourniquet. If your kit does not have a tourniquet you can make one fairly easily. Tourniquets should only be used for injuries where the person is squirting blood. No squirting blood? Use a splint.

  • Call 911 and put the phone on speaker
  • Get a First Aid kit
  • Both these steps can be delegated to someone else if they’re around
  • Put on gloves/eye glasses from the First Aid kit to avoid contamination from bodily fluids
  • Fold cloth or a bandage so that it’s long and an inch wide
  • Wrap the the bandage/cloth two inches above the wound
    • Never apply a tourniquet bandage/cloth on a joint (like elbows or knees). 
  • Find a small stick
  • Place the small stick atop the cloth/bandage and tie it there
  • You can now turn the small stick to tighten the cloth/bandage
  • Have the injured person lay down and try to move as little as possible
  • Do not remove the tourniquet- even if the bleeding stops.
  • Wait until help arrives.
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Black Misfortune: Dead Grandparents & Mother & MIA Father

My MC, Tristana, is a Black woman and I was planning on her being raised by her (paternal) grandparents for a few reasons: one, her maternal grandparents have already passed away before Tristana was born; two, her mother died during child birth; three, her father was captured a few weeks before she was born. None of these deaths are visually portrayed, but they are revealed in the story through dialogue. Is this still bad for various reasons? (I’m planning on having more Black characters then just Tristy and her family, if that helps?)

After the father is captured and questioned about some things the father is involved in (he’s apart of the good guys and the capturers are the bad ones), they freeze him in time but as soon as he escapes (about 19 years later) the first thing he does is go home to try and find Tristana and his wife. Would this still be considered bad in reference to the MIA Black father trope?

Additionally, her grandparents later die (again, not portrayed. All these deaths occur before the novel starts) which is necessary for the plot to start, as it’s how Tristy inherits a ranch for mythical & magical creatures. Should I just scrap this whole thing and start over with a new kickstarter to the plot? I was set upon it before I decided on Trist’s race, but now that I know I want her to be Black I’m scared it’s Bad™. 

As long as you don’t overdo the pain and suffering in the MC’s life, your story can work just fine. When it’s tragedy and hardship after tragedy and hardship, it starts reading like the writing exploits Black women’s pain for entertainment purposes or is treating great amounts of pain as a necessary reality for Black women. 

Solutions: 

  • Essentially, avoid the MC having a life without rest or light that forces her to be “Strong” the majority of the time. She can and should have her struggles, but avoid a Struggle Novel.
  • Not portraying the mother and grandparent’s deaths “on-screen” may help avoid some issues, so I like this idea.
  • As for the Absent Black Father, I feel it’s been explored enough that the tag provides enough of an answer for you to check the situation for stereotypes.

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