Research is one of the most important aspects of being an author.
It’s time consuming, sometimes thankless, hard work. But it’s an absolute fundamental part of writing. Even when you’re writing about something you know.
It’s even more important when you are writing about something you aren’t familiar with personally, but especially when you are writing about cultures, races, sexualities or other groups of people that you do not belong to yourself.
It is not a small issue. You absolutely cannot halfass your research or hope you can get away with not doing any research at all because you can do serious harm with poor or wrong representation. You will not get away with it.
I’ve heard a lot of people say that they are afraid of writing or including diverse characters because they’re afraid of getting it wrong or afraid of criticism if they don’t do something right.
Well guess what? Another fundamental part of being a writer is: criticism.
Criticism has began to get a negative connotation in our community (akin to bullying), even though it isn’t and it never was. Sure, criticism can be negative if someone finds fault with a work, but usually it’s both. Criticism is a discussion of both the good and the bad, and is meant as feedback for the author. That’s what book reviews and feedback usually are: criticism. Stop thinking about it as a mostly negative thing.
If doesn’t matter if you are a debut author or a publishing veteran. Everyone and everything is subject to criticism.
You as an author have a job and that is to write a novel to the best of your ability. That includes research, writing, editing, revising, getting beta and sensitivity readers, and polishing your novel until you feel it’s finished. It’s no one’s job to teach you or give you anything, by the way, this is work you have to do yourself. If you skip or half ass any of those steps, you have no right to complain about any negative feedback because you didn’t do your job right in the first place.
Fear is not an excuse, not a good one, but it is a very lazy one. Because if you do your job, you will have nothing to worry about. You’ll be subject to criticism even if you think you did everything right.
And one last thing: people don’t have to like your book. People will love it and people will hate it. That’s just how things are, so some of the crit will be irrelevant because you can chalk it up taste or different experiences. But if an overwhelming amount of people tell you your book has an issue, you job is not to defend yourself, it’s to shut up, listen, and educate yourself. Sometimes you may even need to apologize. But do pay attention to what people say, especially people you are trying to represent: What is the problem? Why do people give you negative feedback? Read, learn, educate yourself, be better.
And if you’re still scared or you don’t want to put in the work needed to be done… I hate to break it to you, but you have no business writing. Writing is not an easy job and it is all about taking risks. And in the end, it’s not about you or your feelings, but about the story. Your intentions don’t matter, your impact does. The possible hurt and damage you can do to people you are trying to represent because you aren’t willing to do your job right (even to yourself and your career) outweighs your personal feelings. Period, full stop, end of story. If you aren’t willing to do all you need in order to accomplish the job, you shouldn’t be doing it.