I get a lot of questions from writers who are worried about disliking their own characters. Usually there’s a problem with their main character or the whole thing didn’t turn out the way they wanted. Hating your own characters is not a good sign and will probably not help you write the best novel possible.
Here are a few ways to like your characters again:
Think about the story from their perspective
If you hate your character, you might not fully understand them. Try to figure out their mindset or take a walk in their shoes. A hated character might just be a misunderstood character. If your intention isn’t for them to be hated by your readers, maybe try to explain what they’re going through.
Revisit why you wanted to write that character in the first place
There’s a reason why you wanted to tell their specific character’s story. Figure out what you wanted to say and how you wanted to say it through that character. What did you find enticing about that character in the first place?
Consider your character’s motivation
One of the best ways to get a character back on track is to analyze what they want. What’s their purpose in the story? What do they need? What’s pushing them forward in your novel. Understanding a character’s motivation is so important when writing a story. Remember, readers want to be able to relate to a character emotionally.
Pinpoint what exactly you don’t like about them
If there’s something bugging you about a character, you can always change it. First you need to pinpoint what it is. A main character can have flaws, but they should grow and change in some way over the course of your novel. Readers relate to flawed characters, but it can be hard to like a protagonist that has no good in them. Figure out the difference!
Determine if that character is necessary to the story
If you really hate a character and don’t see their value in the story, don’t be afraid to cut them out. Is your character necessary? Do they add anything to the plot? If no, cut them loose! Don’t stick with a story you hate.
-Kris Noel